I have always been a bit of a grammar nut and one of the phrases that I hear in the south, more often than I would like to, is "Where do you stay?" People ask this instead of "Where do you live?" There was a time when I chalked this up to bad grammar, but in recent years, with the work that I do, I find it more accurate than ever.
We had been so focused on teaching children how to create plant and earth based environments that show how plants and earth should work together, that we often do not see that they themselves are in a transient state. "Where do you stay?" is accurate because a large number of children do not live in the same place for very long.
One young lady came to me with the top of a pineapple. This is one of those projects that people often try, but we had intentionally steered clear of these because of the length of time it takes to grow an actual pineapple. Yes, they will see growth throughout the year and they will come to understand root structure, but one of the reasons that we choose the plants that we have is so that students could at some point take a bite out of something they had grown.
The young lady was insistent on growing a pineapple, though. I told her it was going to take a long time to grow. She did not care.
I asked her if she would be able to lift it when it got REALLY big!?
She said she loves pineapple and wasn't going to take it home. She was going to leave it at school.
I told her that she is going to go on to the fourth grade next year.
She said the next kids in my next class could have it. She told me that I had to promise to take care of it when she was not around.
All sorts of things ran through my mind. There were a number of things that could happen in a year. Still I promised and if not me, then someone else.
We only work with the students on Thursday afternoons and Saturday mornings they are allowed to come to help us in the garden. Still the thing that we try to instill in the children is that this is where the plants live. This is where their plants live until they take them home at the end of the school year. I have known so many people, children especially, who do not have permanent homes. Where they sleep and sometimes eat is not where they live, it is where they stay until they are moved on to the next place.
I was blessed when I was growing up with being able to live in the same house in the same town as I grew up. Many are not so lucky. The beauty that I see in them now is that through this program, they are thinking a little differently and that there are things here, parts of them, that will remain, and memories that they can take with them. It is a beautiful thing to see that a child wants to be a part of a place.
We have a number of big projects coming up, but few are as fulfilling as recording the growth of something that someone has invested in for the sake of making the world better. So follow us on instagram at Thelifecooperative to see how these projects are progressing. We will try to post pictures every day! #trinaspineapple